When someone ask’s you have are you feeling, what do you say?
Do you be completely honest and spill exactly how your feeling, how you feel like your world is tearing apart around you and there’s nothing that you can do about it?
Or do you decide to just nod your head and say… Yeah I’m fine.
Its a tricky one, but what I’ve learnt is the one’s that ask how you are. Are the one’s that care. You may feel that they are intruding, trying to get gossip. That’s how I felt most of the time. I didn’t want to tell people how I felt. I just wanted to stay the same as what I was before just a shadow. People never noticed me before… so why now? Now that they’ve herd what your going through they all of a sudden become massively concerned. In my opinion the one’s that were there before the C word are your true friends. Along the way you will find people that just want to gossip and be morbid… These are the people to stay clear off. And there will be a few, so just keep your friends close to your heart and if you feel like explaining how you really feel…go for it.
Dont hold back, in my experience thats when my anger started. I started blaming everyone, everything and anything. But honestly thats because I didn’t have the best group of friends, they didn’t seem to understand. But who does? Nobody understands the C word.. everyone just tries to deal with it…
So my advice for this week; Keep your head up, Keep your heart strong.